Your Messenger message:

"Good morning, Sir Tony. I hope this message finds you well. Your posts on how one should try to live a normal life always surprise me, knowing the great deal of work you have done in and for the spiritual community. Your responses that lean on the psychological and scientific help me ground myself even if the message wasn't really for me.

"A few times in the past I would see 'flashes' or images of people I know in caskets. Two of them died shortly. It happened again today --this time it's a guy I really like. He already has diabetes so perhaps it's a factor for thinking that he's not gonna live long. Still, I hope these images are just nothing? Besides I find this gift--if this is even a gift--utterly useless. Do you think I should consult a professional? I'm afraid I sometimes cannot tell between the product of overthinking and that of clairvoyance. "Thank you sir for reading. May the gods bless you.

"PS. The guy is still alive. I was hoping my 'vision' is wrong."

My reply:

Hello ________!

As a general rule, when other people figure in your dreams, they are those people's values and characteristics that you incorporated in your life, and so, they appear in your dreams as parts of yourself. What, then, could this dream be trying to tell you? Are you taking too much sugar? Are you in fear of becoming ill? Are you giving up on your liking this guy, and are you metaphorically burying him away?

To a certain extent, everyone has precognitive dreams. They occur in flashes and are inconsistent. Neither will yours be consistent, and, therefore, do not rely on them or give too much importance to them. After all, if your dreams are indeed precognitive, why do you have to consult anyone at all? All you have to do is ignore them.

A psychic's duty, first and foremost, is self-development. It is not necessary for him to drag other people into his psychic activities.