Your Messenger message:

"Good morning po Sir Tony! I would like to share my dream last night po.

"My partner and I are supposed to travel outside the country. On the day of the flight he asked me to leave for work because of the flight but when we got to the airport i asked details found out that we don’t have visas and therefore could jot fly out. "He planned the whole trip and i didn’t have to shell out any money but he didn’t give any of the details during the planning process. He asked during check in for my vaccination card and a 1x1 photo but I only have a card with my name misspelled. It was very stressful but I felt bad that we couldn’t proceed with the trip when he made an effort to plan for everything so i went up to him and tried to console him by saying maybe we can rebook the flights to another date. "And also Sir, i don’t know if it has any bearing at all, he changed the bed sheets last night as I asked him to when I remembered your post. "Salamat po Sir and magiingat po kayo palagi!"

My reply:

Hello _______!

The changing of bed sheets triggered this dream--a dream of inadequacy, of disappointment, of frustration, and of the need for renewal.

On one level, your psyche is telling you not to place your complete reliance and trust in others, especially if you do things better and are more efficient than they are. Examine your innermost thoughts: Are you more intelligent than your partner? Do you have a brighter future than he does? Are you wishing that things were otherwise?

On another level, are you so self-confident that you tend to overlook important details?

Sex and companionship are important in a relationship such as yours, but it is also the duty of each person to ensure that his/her partner blossoms to the fullest in all other ways.

There is a possibility that you are beginning to get bored with your situation. Celebrate Valentine's Day all over again this November, see everything good in each other, and be humble in accepting that you both need to improve yourselves in many ways.