Continued from Tony Perez's Electronic Diary (October 19, 2018 - March 12, 2019) http://tonyperezphilippinescyberspacebook41.blogspot.com/

Photo by JR Dalisay / April 21, 2017

Saturday, June 15, 2019

Your Messenger message:

"Hi Tito Boy. Have been dreaming of Tita ____________, Papa ____ and lola _______ for months, about 3 times a week. It can be a silent dream or there would be talk about every day things.

"I have read your advice to others. Hope you can help out a pamangkin. Hehehe. Thanks!

"Happy Father’s Day Tito!!! Dual citizen ka dahil grandpa pa!"


My reply:

Hello ______!

There are two explanations for this:

1) The deceased wish to be remembered. Keeping them in pleasant thoughts is a form of heaven for them.

It might help if you place their photos on an ancestral altar and offer flowers and light lamps there regularly.

2) As a responsible male descendant, you are experiencing residual guilt because, when these persons were still alive, they did not get the happiness they deserved.

You can make up for this by being loving, caring, supportive, and giving toward your existing, immediate relatives, and by doing the same to the members of your family.

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