Your Messenger message:

"Good evening, Sir Tony. I hope you could help provide clarity about my dream.

"Last night, I dreamt of my deceased grandfather. I served vegetable soup to him in my dream. I couldn't remember what exactly he said to me in my dream, but I remember waking up crying because I missed him. It's going to be 2 years since his passing. Thank you, Sir."

My reply:

Hello _____!

Your grandfather wishes to be remembered. Place a framed photo of him on your family altar. If you neglected to light yellow joss sticks when he passed, do so now--two yellow joss sticks every night for a week, every other night for the following two weeks, and every week for the rest of the year. After the passage of a year, light three red joss sticks in his memory every week.