Your Messenger message:

"Hello po sir tony:

"My dream, "Nasa pwesto po ako ng tita ko and went for a pee, nakita ko po lolo ko na siya na po susunod sakin sa pag ihi since the door hindi po masyadong ayos, while umiihi po ako may fetus like po sakin na lumabas where i can see the eyes, hands and feet and nasa bahay bata pa po siya, pinakita ko po sa lolo ko and my lolo said picturan mo. "My partner went home galing sa event i know that we are not ok, may kasama po siyang babae, may dala dala po siyang plastic i think food po un, in my dream i was so deeply mad at him to the point na umiyak ako and he let me packed his things up and leave, i send him the picture of the fetus and didnt know his reaction. "In my dream i feel like im very mad and being tired of him thats why i let him leave. I feel like i wanted him to leave pero may pagmamahal parin po ako na natitira pra sakanya but i let him leave the house."

My reply:

Hello _______!

This was another anxiety dream. It reflects your fear of being abandoned by the person you love.

The fetus and the plastic bag containing food are one and the same thing: how you express your love to your partner. With the former image, you feel that you have given yourself completely to your partner but you feel that he does not appreciate this and takes you for granted. The fetus, therefore, represents lifeless love or a life that has died before even being born and raised as a human being. With the latter image, you see that the other woman has better expressed her love by producing food--nourishment--both for herself and for your partner,

Worry not--in both dreams, YOU are both women. You are simply torn between the devil and the deep, blue sea at the moment.

Remember that no man can completely understand a woman, even if that man is her partner. By the same token, no woman can completely understand a man, even if that woman is his partner.

In the end, also consider this, that a partnership is not as strong a bond as marriage. You may have qualms about being married and being tied to one person for life, but, if you truly love your partner, you will be able to take the risk, fully commit yourself, and transcend all of your doubts, especially for the sake of your child.