Never let "religious" people manipulate you to do what they want you to do. You will find that they have uptight, if not dysfunctional, family and community dynamics, and that they vent their personal frustrations by trying to control others.

When such people try to harass you that way, simply tell them, "No one tells me what to do." Love seeing them sputtering, their faces turning red, and their bodies trembling with un-displaced anger.