Your Messenger message:

"Hi Tony,

"I just had a dream and trying to interpret but can’t seem to get a more logical interpretation. In my dream, I was driving our car with _______—my husband as passenger. We were supposed to be traversing a coastal area when a very high tidal wave swooped on us. I was so scared that I just hugged Rudy and our car was engulfed by the wave. But our car got stuck on one of the high coral cliffs and we were safe. We got of the car and safely went into a village with various people waiting for the water to subside.

"Thank you for your help. Take care always."

Reply:

Hello_____!

This was an anxiety dream. It is related to one or both of your sons. You either discovered something unusual in their objectives and lifestyle or they revealed to you something about themselves that you were completely unprepared for.

They themselves do not appear in your dream because your psyche determined that, if they did, it would be extremely painful to you.

All I can say at this point is, let your children come into your own. They have their own lives to live. They don't have to grow up the way you did--and maybe they don't really want to."