Your Messenger message:

"Naalala ko po nagsindi po ako ng candila sa mga entrance ng dati naming tinitirhan at nag offer ng pagkain nung nabasa ko po yung post mo about sa hungry ghosts month.

"Ask ko lang po. Big factor po ba ang tinitirhan na bahay sa araw araw na buhay ng isang family? Simula po kasi nung lumipat po kami dun sa last na tinirhan namin medyo malas yung dalawang buwan namin. 3 times na reject si misis sa work na ina applyan nya po, maraming expenses na dumadating, at a night before bago po kami lumipat nabundol pa yung isa naming aso."

My reply:

Hello _____!

Wherever you decide to move you need to establish good relations with Nature, with the elementals, and with the spirits who were there before you. Otherwise, from their point of view, you are a mere intruder. Land titles and certificates of ownership mean nothing to them--as they mean nothing also to informal settlers.